There’s a question I want to gently place in front of you: If gray divorce after 50 is forcing you out of your home… what are you really grieving?Is it the house? Or is it the life you believed that house represented? Because those are not the same thing. And understanding that difference might be [...]
There’s something in the gray divorce conversation that almost no one is willing to say out loud. Not the lawyers Not the therapists Not even your closest friends Because it’s uncomfortable.And it goes against everything we’ve been taught we’re supposed to feel. But after speaking with so many people navigating divorce after 30, 35, even [...]
What If Your Kids Don’t Want the House? What if the house you’ve poured your time, energy, and savings into… is a house your children don’t actually want? That’s not easy to hear. But it may be one of the most important conversations we have this year. Because this isn’t really about real estate. It’s [...]
What No One Tells You About Renting in Retirement If you’re over 60 and you’ve ever thought about selling your house and renting, you’ve probably heard that little voice whisper: Isn’t that going backward? Isn’t that giving up everything I’ve worked for? I understand that feeling. I’ve felt it too. But what if renting isn’t [...]
What No One Tells You About Renting in Retirement There’s a quiet question many people over 60 are asking…But very few are saying out loud. What if I sold my home and started renting? And almost immediately, another voice follows:Isn’t that going backwards? Isn’t that giving up everything I’ve worked for? If you’ve ever had [...]
Last week, a comment on one of my videos stopped me in my tracks. A woman wrote: “Rita, I worked my whole life to pay off my house. But now that it's finally paid off… I feel trapped.” Then she added something quietly, almost apologetically: “Sometimes I wonder if I would actually be happier renting. [...]
(And What You Can Start Doing Today) There was one moment in my life I will never forget. I had just started my decluttering journey—slowly at first, one closet at a time. Nothing dramatic. One afternoon I opened a closet filled with beautiful business suits. Some still had tags on them. And I started to [...]
Why Decluttering After 60 Can Be Transformational Many people think decluttering after 60 is simply about getting rid of things or downsizing to a smaller home. But for many women, the process goes much deeper than that. It’s about letting go of an identity, redefining success, and creating space for the life you truly want [...]
Why Feeling “Off” at Home Is Often the First Sign of Your Next Life Transition There was a season when my house suddenly became very quiet. If you’ve been following me for a while, you probably know exactly what I mean. The backpacks disappeared.The schedules slowed down.The refrigerator stopped emptying itself overnight. And for many [...]
Why Your Home May Be Exhausting You — and Burdening Your Kids Someday You might be feeling tired and assuming it’s your age. It could be. But it could also be your house. The cleaning. The yard work. The repairs. The unfinished decisions. The rooms you rarely use but still maintain. And here’s the uncomfortable [...]
