Rita Wilkins Decluttering and minimalism blog
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Living Large with Less: The Unspoken Perks of Downsizing and Decluttering

For many years, as an interior designer, I helped people upsize to bigger homes with larger closets and expansive kitchens. Fast forward. I downsized and decluttered. Now, those same clients and audiences are asking me to help them downsize their large homes. It’s funny, isn’t it? For decades, the American ...
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The Last Step of Decluttering No One Talks About

(And Why It Might Be the Reason You’re Stuck) You just spent the last two weekends decluttering: Your closets feel and look much lighter. Your adult son’s room is finally cleared of his high school trophies, college textbooks, and old sports uniforms. You can hardly wait to convert that room ...
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Dear Baby Boomers: Why It’s Time to Let Go and Live More

A letter from my heart, to my fellow Baby Boomers, about downsizing, decluttering, and creating your next best chapter. Let’s be honest with each other. We’ve lived long enough to accumulate… well, far too much stuff. Closets that seem to multiply their contents overnight Basements that could qualify as architectural ...
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Stop Organizing Your Stuff and Start Facing It

Clutter Is Not the Problem. It’s the Symptom. Have you ever thought: “If I just got more plastic bins… if I just labeled them better… I’d finally feel more organized and in control”? I’ve heard this countless times from clients over the years and honestly, I’ve even said it to ...
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Baby Boomers! Still Paying for a House That’s Too Big?

Holding On for Dear Life—While Paying for Square Footage For many Boomers, these two realities happen at the same time. We hold on for dear life to objects, furniture, and keepsakes that represent our past, while simultaneously paying a premium to house them in spaces we barely use. The emotional ...
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The Elephant in the Room: “Someday” Clutter

Is “Someday Clutter” Creating a Wedge Between You and the Ones You Love? Have you ever noticed how you and your spouse keep avoiding the “basement conversation” because it inevitably spirals into an argument?Or how tension fills the air the moment you mention the overstuffed garage? Let’s be honest. “Someday ...
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When Relationships Get Off Track During Decluttering and Downsizing

How to Reset with Compassion and Courage Let’s be honest—decluttering and downsizing can bring out the best in us… or sometimes the worst. I’ve seen it all: Couples bickering over mystery boxes in the garage. Adult children rolling their eyes as parents hold onto the Christmas decorations from 1973. Parents ...
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10 Quiet but Powerful Concerns of Women 50+… And How They Can Become Your Next Great Adventure

What’s Really on Her Mind? The whispers we don’t say out loud If you’re a woman over fifty, you know there are certain things we don’t always voice.We’ll talk about the weather, the latest Netflix binge, or the grandkids’ soccer games. But the deeper, quieter stuff? That usually stays tucked ...
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The “Too Much” Dilemma: A Gentle Reset for Your Space, Time, and Energy

Do you have too much to do? Too much to keep track of?Too much taking up your space, time, energy, and peace of mind?Does it feel like you’re drowning in commitments, decisions, and possessions? When life feels like it’s overflowing, you wake up tired, the kitchen counter you cleared last ...