Decluttering & Downsizing Blog

Rita Wilkins Decluttering and minimalism blog
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The Word Baby Boomers Refuse to Say and What It May Be Costing Them

I have a question for you, and I would love for you to sit with it for just a moment before you answer. When was the last time someone asked you, “What do you do for a living?” Did you pause before saying the word retired? If so, you are ...
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What Baby Boomers and Millennials Can Learn From Each Other About Life

The other day, I read an article called The Millennial Divide in Builder magazine. Written by an economist, it explored the growing gap between millennials who were able to enter the housing market early enough and those who waited too long and now feel priced out of the very life ...
A baby boomer woman seated on the sand looking at the sunset in deep thoughts of not wanting more stuff but more of the life she truly deserves.

What If More Is No Longer the Answer?

What if I don’t want more anymore? Maybe more was never really the answer. This is a question many people over 50 are quietly asking themselves. Not always out loud. Not necessarily at dinner parties or even with family. But privately, while standing in a home filled with beautiful things ...
Older couple reviewing retirement plans together at a table with savings, paperwork, and happy retirement blocks, reflecting the lifestyle and financial decisions of retirement.

Retirement Is Not Just About Money. It Is About the Life You Want to Live

For decades, the retirement conversation has sounded almost the same in every household. Will we have enough money? Can we afford to retire?How long will our savings last? Should we sell the house? Financial security matters, of course. It always has. For many in our parents’ generation, retirement was viewed ...
Older woman looking thoughtful while standing in a large, elegant living room, reflecting on whether her home still fits her current stage of life.

Managing a House That No Longer Fits: “I Know Something Needs to Change… I Just Don’t Know What”

There comes a point in life when the home that once felt like success, security, and comfort begins to feel heavy. Not because the house has changed. Because you have changed. Maybe you have found yourself saying, “I know something needs to change… I just don’t know what.” You are ...
House for sale sign in front of a traditional family home, representing the emotional decision many baby boomers face when considering selling or downsizing.

Why Baby Boomers Are Not Selling Their Homes: It’s Not Just the Market

There has been a lot of conversation lately about why baby boomers are not selling their homes. Many experts point to the housing market. They mention high interest rates, economic uncertainty, rising home prices, and the challenge of finding somewhere affordable to move. And yes, those things matter. But I ...
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Motherhood After 50: Learning to Love Differently Without Losing Yourself

Motherhood has been on my mind a lot lately. Not because I want flowers or gifts, although those are always lovely, but because holidays like Mother’s Day have a way of bringing emotions to the surface. Feelings we often tuck away. Feelings we may not even realize we are carrying ...
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What Mom Really Wants for Mother’s Day

“What should we get Mom for Mother’s Day?” Flowers, a card, brunch, and thoughtful gifts are all lovely. But today, I want to share a little secret about what moms really want. And if you are a mom reading this, you might quietly smile, nod your head, and think, “Yes, ...
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Why Decluttering Feels More Stressful Before It Feels Better

The Messy Middle No One Talks About Have you ever started decluttering and instead of feeling better… you actually felt worse? Like somehow, you made a bigger mess than the one you started with? I received a comment recently from someone in this community, and I think so many of ...