Rita Wilkins Decluttering and minimalism blog
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The Scary Truth About Decluttering: What Baby Boomers Leave Behind

A Lifetime of Boxes If you’ve ever lost a loved one, are there stories you wish they had shared with you or wisdom that might’ve helped you along the way? If so, that’s what this blog is all about. After her mother passed away, a friend of mine was cleaning ...
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What If It’s Not About the Clutter? How Awareness Frees You to Let Go

The Truth No One Tells You About Letting Go Most people think decluttering is about boxes, labels, bubble wrap, or finding more storage. But what if clutter isn’t the real problem? What if it’s just the symptom? Many of us—especially in this season of life—are holding onto far more than ...
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Letting Go Together: The Tender Side of Downsizing and What Parents Really Need from Us

This blog is for adult children who are helping their parents downsize and navigate the emotional and mental strain while preserving dignity, love, and connection. The Email That Stopped Me in My Tracks Every so often, I receive an email that pierces through the noise of everyday life — one ...
A couple downsizing and decluttering their home before the big move underestimating the challenges.

Boxes, Bubble Wrap, and the Big Fat Lies We Tell Ourselves: How to Survive Your Move with Humor and Grace

You start your decluttering and downsizing journey full of excitement, armed with a stack of boxes, Sharpies, and five big rolls of bubble wrap. You tell yourself, “This will be fun! A fresh start, a whole new chapter!” You are ready to conquer the clutter that has built up over ...
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The Hidden Truth About Downsizing and Decluttering

Why It Feels So Hard… and How to Finally Move Forward The Unspoken Downsizing and Decluttering Struggle No one told you it would feel like this. Downsizing and decluttering sound so simple on paper: pack, donate, throw away, move on. But when you’re standing in a room filled with a ...
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Clutter Traps: Eight Sneaky Ways That Steal Your Freedom (and How to Escape Them)

Have you ever walked into your basement or opened a closet and felt like the walls were closing in on you? You swear you just set a few things aside “for later,” but somehow those piles multiplied overnight. It feels like clutter has a secret life.It creeps. It hides. It ...
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Living Large with Less: The Unspoken Perks of Downsizing and Decluttering

For many years, as an interior designer, I helped people upsize to bigger homes with larger closets and expansive kitchens. Fast forward. I downsized and decluttered. Now, those same clients and audiences are asking me to help them downsize their large homes. It’s funny, isn’t it? For decades, the American ...
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The Last Step of Decluttering No One Talks About

(And Why It Might Be the Reason You’re Stuck) You just spent the last two weekends decluttering: Your closets feel and look much lighter. Your adult son’s room is finally cleared of his high school trophies, college textbooks, and old sports uniforms. You can hardly wait to convert that room ...
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Dear Baby Boomers: Why It’s Time to Let Go and Live More

A letter from my heart, to my fellow Baby Boomers, about downsizing, decluttering, and creating your next best chapter. Let’s be honest with each other. We’ve lived long enough to accumulate… well, far too much stuff. Closets that seem to multiply their contents overnight Basements that could qualify as architectural ...