Private Coaching with Rita

Private One-on-One Coaching with Rita

Downsizing, decluttering, letting go, and moving on with clarity, confidence, and commitment.

Thoughtful, short-term coaching for women 50+ who want honest support through meaningful change.

If You Found Your Way Here, It's Likely Not By Accident

You may be someone who:

  • Has followed my YouTube channel and quietly thought, "She's describing my exact situation."
  • Has tried to begin downsizing or decluttering more than once, only to stall.
  • Feels worn down by the emotional weight of decisions, memories, and responsibilities.
  • Knows the challenge isn't the clutter itself, but what each item represents.
  • Is ready for a calmer, more honest way forward.

Many women tell me, often in the comments:

"I know what I need to do, but I can't seem to move forward."

"I don't trust myself to make the right decisions."

"I'm afraid of regretting what I let go of."

"I feel caught between who I was and what's next."

If this sounds familiar, you're not alone.

Who This Coaching Is For

This one-on-one coaching is for women 50+ who feel ready to slow down, make thoughtful decisions, and move forward with clarity.

This coaching is for women who feel ready to:
  • Look honestly at what they’re holding onto, and why
  • Slow down enough to make thoughtful, lasting decisions
  • Engage with the emotional side of downsizing and decluttering, not just the logistics
  • Show up with openness, curiosity, and a willingness to reflect
  • Take steady, consistent action between sessions

This work is not about perfection or rushing.
It is about honesty, self-trust, and forward movement.

Who this coaching may not be for

This may not be the right fit if you are looking for:

  • A quick decluttering plan or external motivation
  • Someone to make decisions for you
  • Ongoing or crisis-level support
  • Reassurance without real change

And that’s okay. Different seasons require different kinds of support.

Why I Offer This, and Why It’s Limited

I have spent years working with women navigating downsizing, decluttering, and major life transitions. I understand the emotional architecture behind these decisions, not just the physical work.

Because this coaching is personal and demanding, I offer it in limited windows and accept only a small number of clients at a time. Not every application is accepted, and that care is intentional.

What You Can Expect If Accepted
  • Private one-on-one Zoom sessions
  • Short-term focused and personal support: 3 or 5 one-hour Zoom sessions
  • Thoughtful pacing without pressure or overwhelm
  • Clear, compassionate guidance through difficult decisions
  • Grounded accountability, kindness, and honesty
  • Reflection and simple between-session exercises to support progress

Coaching Options

The Clarity Reset

Best for women who know it’s time to begin, but feel emotionally or mentally stuck, and want guidance and momentum without over-committing.

Our focus: A specific area, category, or decision point.
  • 3 private one-on-one Zoom calls
  • 60 minutes each
  • $900
  • Paid in full at time of booking
Our work together might include:
  • Identifying what’s truly holding you back
  • Learning how to make decisions without regret
  • Creating a clear, realistic plan that you can sustain
Includes:
  • Personalized session notes
  • Gentle accountability between sessions
  • Practical and emotional decision-making tools

Availability is intentionally limited.

The Intentional Transition

Best for women downsizing, decluttering an entire home, preparing for a move, or navigating a significant life transition.

Our focus: Support from the beginning through follow-through.
  • 5 private one-on-one Zoom sessions
  • 60 minutes each
  • $1500
  • Paid in full at time of booking
Our work together might include:
  • Clarifying vision and emotional readiness
  • Category-based downsizing strategies
  • Letting go of sentimental and inherited items
  • Navigating decisions, fatigue, doubt, and family dynamics
  • Designing what comes next with intention
Includes:
  • Written summaries after each session
  • Accountability between calls
  • Personalized prompts and worksheets

Availability is intentionally limited.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why do you offer packages instead of single sessions?

Because lasting progress rarely happens in one conversation. Packages allow space for reflection, momentum, and thoughtful follow-through without pressure.

Is this therapy?

No. This is coaching, not therapy. While emotional topics may arise, the focus is on clarity, decision-making, and forward movement related to your space and life transition.

Will you tell me what to keep or get rid of?

No. My role is to support your decisions, not make them for you.

Is this ongoing coaching?

No. This is short-term, highly focused, and intentional coaching offered only in defined packages.

Who is this not a good fit for?

This may not be the right fit if you want fast, surface-level organizing solutions, you’re looking for ongoing or open-ended coaching, you’re not emotionally ready to engage in the process, or you want someone else to make decisions for you.

How To Get Started: Next Steps

Because this work is personal, coaching is offered by application only.

If your application is a good fit, you'll be invited to schedule a brief clarity call so we can ensure this work feels right for both of us.

A detailed application is required. The application itself is part of the process. It helps you clarify where you are, and helps me determine whether this coaching will truly support you at this stage.

If you are ready to engage thoughtfully and would value a steady, experienced guide beside you, I invite you to apply below.

Rita Wilkins

I personally review each application. If I feel this coaching would truly serve you, you’ll be invited to a brief Zoom conversation to explore next steps. Not all applications are accepted, and that care is intentional.

Some Things Are Meant to Be Held Onto

Some things are meant to be honored and released

This work makes space for both.

This work asks something of you:

Your time. Your attention. Your willingness.

It also gives something back:

Clarity, confidence, and relief.